Christian Counselor- Why some men die single
Christian Counselor Tara Boddie Claims Some Men Die Single: Because They’re Chasing The Wrong Women. Let’s talk about a hard truth that doesn’t get said enough: some men end up alone not because they’re unworthy of love, but because they continually pursue women who were never truly interested in them to begin with. It’s like pouring water into a cup with no bottom—no matter how much effort, attention, or affection they give, it will never be enough to make something real out of a one-sided connection.
Far too often, men chase what looks good instead of what feels right. They get caught up in the appeal of surface-level attraction, status, or idealized fantasies rather than focusing on compatibility, shared values, or emotional safety. The result? They spend years, sometimes decades, investing in people who don’t respect them, don’t reciprocate their energy, and don’t have their best interests at heart. Meanwhile, they often overlook women who are kind, loyal, emotionally available, and would truly pour back into them.
Sometimes this pattern is driven by ego. Sometimes it’s a desire to “win” or “conquer.” Other times, it’s fear—fear of being seen, fear of intimacy, fear of being known by someone who might actually love them for who they really are. But chasing people who never wanted to be caught is a fast track to burnout, bitterness, and deep loneliness.
And let’s be honest—this truth isn’t just about men. Many women fall into the same cycle, chasing emotionally unavailable partners or overlooking the love that’s right in front of them. Real love requires presence, not pursuit. What do you think?
